Time to wake up Maria!

Just to be clear, before you continue reading please attach to your mind that I have nothing against women because  DUH i am a woman.. i just want to kinda make things clearer for us (women) to be fair to men. AND the things i posted here are not applicable to ALL WOMEN just so you know :)

I have heard/read from women that "men are mean/bad", "all men are the same", "men are liars" and many more negative stuff about men. 

First of all, NOBODY TOLD YOU TO TRY THEM ALL. Realtalk, you cant say that they are all the same if you havent been with every man in the world. Please stop generalizing your opinion. If you got hurt by your man, dont hate every man on earth. Maybe he was just not meant for you and
you were too EXCITED to have someone in your life that you ended up being with the wrong one. Every person on earth is different so dont go out in public saying that they are all the same because THEY ARE NOT.

Second, DONT BE SUCH A DUMBASS. Ok this is my opinion so you're free to criticize this post. For me, most of the women who post or say negative stuff about men are PITY and FAME WHORES. Seriously they post/say these stuff so that it creates commotion and every girl says "its ok you'll find another" and every guy says "i will never do that to you.. Maybe im your THE ONE". Please give people a break from your silly attempt to become famous cuz your starting to look desperate. Ask a hug from you parents cuz that would make you feel better than annoying people for likes. If you want to find another man, then look for one.. Dont pretend to be HEART BROKEN and bitter so that men will swarm towards you.

Third, (and this is the most crucial). PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, LOOK AT YOURSELF FIRST. I'm not saying that its your fault you got hurt.. Maybe it was your man's fault maybe it was because of you.. But who cares.. Its your problem.. The thing is, before you tell men that they are liars and bad, look at what you have done, we're you the best lover? Did you support him with his dreams? Have you given your time? In short, WERE YOU A GIRL WHO IS WORTH LOVING? lets get real, dont expect a man to let you be his princess if you treat him like a slave. Treat him like a prince and HOPEFULLY if he loves you he'll treat you like a princess.. 

Tama na yung puro women chuchu and all that shiizz.. There are men out there who are nice, loyal, honest and all that good things one woman needs. You just gotta have an open mind and an open heart to find the one for you. DONT BE BITTER. That will never get you anywhere.

ALSO (i should add) there are also men who are TOTAL d**ks so may Karma be with them.. And the whole world hopes for their exile :3

To end this, please bear in mind ... "Its not just about YOU its about the BOTH of you" (this is for both men and women)

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 just be nice and i can be your friend :) 

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Xoxo

HappyLovedCaredfor

Halfway There 💗

Its been two years now since I started my college journey here in Manila. As of today, I survived 6 terms out of 13.

Two years of super time-demanding projects, migraine-triggering quizzes, super annoying classmates who SUPER cheat (its ok if its minor cheating but for major cheaters ... WHYY PEOPLE WHYY??), fishbowler profs, INSANELY super-cooled rooms and all other negative stuff that I have failed to mention. Despite those, I also have nice experiences during those two years.

I joined IMES. Well this might sound corny but I love them. People understand each other and we treat each other like family. You can ask help from upperclassmen (as long as you don't call them ate/kuya) ahahhaa about academics or anything under the sun. Taking the risk of studying in Manila alone was a big step for me because we didn't really have relatives in Manila. That is why IMES became my family. Although I'm not close to all of them, they made me feel that I was a part of something and that something is the thing that made me feel comfortable at school.

I met my college buds! Talk about sticky but we are sticky as glue :) Ryna Bato, Bernadette Aranguren and our newest bud Benedict Depamaylo. Besides from making sure that we have the same classes and panicking every enrollment when one or two gets a red X after clicking the last button during enrollment, we sure are clingy to one another ahahha. :D We may have different personalities but we get along very fine. Some of us LOVE vegetables while others HATE them. Some of us love dogs while one loves cats :).

                     

I learned to have fun on my own. Eating alone, singing in karaokes alone, going to world of fun aline.. These are just some stuff i do alone... But before you feel pity for me, i'm just gonna tell you DONT. I am actually fine being alone.. When im eating alone i spend less and more for myself, when i sing in karaokes alone i dont feel scared/hesitant cuz the people around dont know me anyway, when i go to world of fun alone i can play ANY game ANY time.. Being alone is sad and lonely but it has its perks.. Maybe i got used to that lifestyle ahahaha

                        

                       

My everyday life is a freakin' a+mazing journey. Many people ask me how i survived everyday. Well, i live like its my last. I do the things i want, say the sings i want to say, eat what i want to eat, listen to whoever i want to listen to, ignore the people i dont like, help the people who need me, treat myself from time to time and just have the BEST time of my life every time.

So if you are like me. a 'probinsyana' girl living in a busy-ass city, then i say to you "BE STRONG" cuz your mama isnt at your side right now to do things for you and to protect you..TREASURE those people who value you and take care of you specially during rough times cuz if they stay during those times, then they must love you very much.

this post is quite long so thanks for reading until this part :) i love ya'll 

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